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If you're not exposed film, why are you so negative?
" Be Positive at all time"
Some people are confused about the nature of positive thinking.
Among other things, they believe positive thinkers are Pollyanna's wearing pink colored glasses who engage in wishful thinking. The critics also go on to say those so-called positive thinkers live in a mindless dream world and suppress their negative emotions because they cannot face the harshness of life.
But what are the facts? It is the negative thinkers that practice wishful thinking! They love to complain
about the misery they're in and do nothing about it, other than wish someone or something will come along and rescue them. They live in denial, refusing to accept responsibility for their lives. They resort to the blame game to avoid facing the facts that worthwhile goals require effort and persistence to achieve.
It's Up to you
This life is the only one
you're given.
Look for opportunities to grow,
and never be discouraged
in your efforts to do so.
Replaces your weaknesses
with positive;
take life's broken pieces
and re-create your dreams.
never measure the future
by the past;
let yesterday become a memory
and tomorrow a promise.
Begin each day by focusing
on all that is good,
and you'll be in position
to handle whatever comes along.
take responsibility for
your action;
never make excuses
for not being the best
you can be.
If you should slip,
be comforted by the thought
that we all do at times.
Determine your tomorrow
by the choices you make today,
and you'll find yourself living
in joy and triumph.
Never Let Go of Hope
One day you will see that all
has finally come together.
what you have always wished for
has finally come to be.
You will look back
and laugh at what passed
and you will ask yourself,
"How did i get through all of that?"
Just never let go of hope.
Just never quit dreaming.
And never let love
depart from your life.
Never Let go of the
Dream in your heart
Sometimes it seems that our dreams
crumble in our hands.
We think that we have failed
and that all we tried
So hard to attain
Will now always stay
Slightly out of reach.
But one failure cannot
Crumble the dreams
That years of hard work
and dedication have built.
So hold on to your dreams.
Believe in your self,
and you will find that a
Bright tomorrow
Waits just around the next turn.
You will make it.
You will be successful.
And your dream will come true...
Just keep believing!
1. Don't identify with your failures or mistakes. You are not a 'failure' or 'stupid' just because something didn't go according to plan. You are merely someone experiencing a temporary setback.
2. Let go of anger. Resentment, anger, and rancor are thorns. Embrace them not, for they puncture the heart, causing grievous pain. Release them and heal your wounds with the balm of forgiveness.
3. If you catch yourself thinking that you 'have to,' 'must,' 'ought to,' or 'should' do many things, rephrase your thoughts in a positive manner. You see, those words create stress and guilt, weighing you down. They also remind you of being forced to do things as a child, so they create resistance.
4. Avoid thinking, "I CAN'T" because that expression is a dead-end street; it doesn't lead anywhere. Instead, say, "I WILL" + "IF." For example, rather than saying, "I CAN'T lift that weight," say "I WILL be able to lift that weight in three months IF I increase the weight I now lift by ten pounds each week.
While "I CAN'T" brings you to a screeching halt, the "I WILL + IF" formula forces you to look for, find, and implement solutions. Summing up, success comes in cans, failure in cant's. With a little bit of practice, positive thinking becomes a habit, and as Frank Crane wrote, "Habits are safer than rules; you don't have to watch them. And you don't have to keep them either.
5. Don't get suckered into the false belief that events or other people cause you to feel the way you do. The only one in charge of your emotions is you. People, or events, cannot make you upset, frustrate you, or disappoint you unless you allow them to. It's a choice you make.
6. Don't be sensitive; be strong. Don't interpret your boss' glance as a look of disapproval. Don't imagine that the guy who just cut in front of you on the highway did so because he disrespects you. Don't think a rude remark made by a stressed out teen indicates that he doesn't like you.
Finally, the following poem may help to guide us on the path to positive
thinking:
Fear less, hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours.
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